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What Your Turn-Ons Say About Your Dating Style

Flava's Turn-on tags let you express what excites you — from kisses and sapiosexuality to party games and public places. But beyond helping you find compatible matches, your tag choices say a lot about your dating personality.

We analyzed millions of Turn-on selections across our user base to find patterns. Here's what we discovered.

The Adventurer

If your tags include things like public places, party games, and travel, you're what we call the Adventurer. You're drawn to novelty and spontaneity. For you, a great date isn't just about the person — it's about the experience.

Adventurers match best with other adventurers and with people who tag "spontaneous meetups" in their Looking-for section. You thrive when the plan is "let's see what happens."

The Sensualist

Tags like kisses, massage, scents, and wax play point to someone who experiences connection through physical sensation. You value touch, closeness, and the details that make an encounter memorable.

Sensualists tend to have longer conversations before meeting — they want to build anticipation. When they do meet, the connection is often immediate and intense.

The Intellectual

Sapiosexuality, deep conversations, and "just chat" as a Looking-for tag — you're turned on by what's between the ears. For you, a great opening message matters more than a perfect photo.

Intellectuals are the most likely to use Poke, because they have something specific to say. Their match rate through Poke is 12× higher than average — the highest of any dating style.

The Social Butterfly

Dance, music, party games, grab a drink — your tags paint a picture of someone who comes alive in social settings. You're energized by group dynamics and shared experiences.

Social Butterflies are the most active users on Flava, with the highest daily open rates and the longest streaks. They're also the most likely to use Explorer Mode to find matches while traveling.

What does your profile say?

Open Flava and take a look at your Turn-ons. What story do they tell? And more importantly — are they attracting the kind of people you actually want to meet? Sometimes updating your tags is all it takes to completely change your matching experience.

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Set your Turn-ons, discover your dating style, and meet compatible singles on Flava.

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